Archive for July, 2007

Patchwork Scrap

Thursday, July 12th, 2007

A couple of days ago, a (very) young lady with a patchwork coat walked up to our door telling us she was lost, and requesting assistance. She conveyed this by launching herself as soon as the door was opened, using needle-sharp claws to scale my jeans and t-shirt until she attained my shoulder, whereupon she settled down as if she had always been there.

So we now have a wee pound and a half scrap of calico fur quarantined upstairs, until we’re sure she isn’t going to come down with something. She’s been to the vet; considering that she’s all of about 5 or 6 weeks old and has been on her own, she was in remarkably good shape. So she’s been dewormed, and treated for ear mites and fleas, and has a couple of days of regular meals in her tummy. The difference is amazing, and so is the purr. She loves to play, to be petted, to be carried around (at least if I’m doing the carrying). We’ve told our son we can’t keep a third cat, and he hasn’t argued, but he does get teary-eyed every time he thinks about it. I understand that; I do too. She’s a very sweet-natured little girl, and clearly considers us Her People already. That one’s going to require some serious adult discussion.

When scared, her first reaction is to leap for my knee and climb up the rest of the way to my shoulder. That represents safety for her. Of course it wasn’t enough when she caught a glimpse of the big cats; not only did she climb me, she tried to climb over the top my chair. Poor baby; I plucked her off and held her in my hands, assuring her carefully that she was safe. She wasn’t buying – there was much hissing and growling, and none of it came from Tornado or Sophia. The baby looked deeply offended when I laughed, but what was I to do? There she was, defending her honor and turf, back arched and tail fluffed and ready to take on all comers…all while standing with all four white paws firmly in the palm of my hand, with room to spare.

P.D.C.F.*

Monday, July 2nd, 2007

Not too long back, I was visiting a friend with whom I chat on IM fairly regularly. We could talk on the phone; we used to, years ago. But some of our topics of conversation are such that we would prefer not to be overheard, especially by our sons, so we IM.

So there I was, sitting on her couch, with her son playing video games and her husband watching a cooking show, and she and I each with laptop opened before us as we checked e-mail when it suddenly struck me that if we didn’t want to be overheard, we had the perfect solution. Even if we were all of five feet apart, nothing said we couldn’t use our usual method of communication. So I IM’d her, and we mystified her guys by breaking out in giggles for the space of 2 or 3 exchanges about just how silly we were being.

A seed was planted that night, which has come to mental fruition this morning. My husband and I, at the end of the day, are generally to be found sitting in the living room each with laptop open before us while our son builds and demolishes lego structures and winds himself down for the day. Even once he goes to bed, the bedrooms are directly off the livingroom, so if we’re talking about something that concerns him, we’re all too apt to hear “What about the water park?” wafting forth. But if we’re online, and we go to chat, then it doesn’t matter if he’s fifteen feet away or fifteen miles. He will hear nothing but the familiar clicking of keyboards, and we can have a private conversation regardless of whether he’s asleep or awake.

Technologically assisted parental cheating. Gotta love it.

*Parents Don’t Cheat Fair